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NOTE: The spelling and grammar of questions sent to Courtney have not been
corrected, they are printed verbatim as Courtney receives them.
Dear Courtney,
I HAVE A BIG PROBLEM AND I WAS WOUNDERING IF YOU CAN HELP ME. FRIST I WILL TELL YOU MAY PROBLEM. WELL I JUST STARTED TO DATE THIS GUY AND MAYBE A WEEK AFTER WE STARTED TO DATE HE ASKED ME TO MARRIE HIM AND I DID NOT WANT TO SAY NO CAUSE I DID NOT A TO HURT HIS FEELINGS SO I SAID YES AND KNOW I DON'T KNOW IF I WANT TO BE WITH HIM CAUSE I HARDLY KNOW HIM AND I AM ONLY 18 AND I WANT TO HAVE A LIFE BEFORE I GET MARRIED AND STETLE DOWN SO CAN YOU HELP ME? THANK YOU VERY MUCH,
M. 18, WI
Dear M.
I'm going to be blunt. Your first priority is to get out of the relationship. Additionally, I can make a very educated guess that you have some serious issues from your past to deal with. There are professionals in your area that can help. Finally, if you insist on giving this near stranger so much power over your life, set your wedding date for sometime around 2008.
Your E-Love Advisor,
Courtney
Dear Courtney,
I have been dateing this one guy for closr to a year and we were going to get married not this coming summer but the summer after that. He told mme he loved me and I said the same thing back to him too. Two saterdays ago he and my best friend did it and I have know Idea what to do. I still love him with all my heart but it is hurting me to much. So can you please help me. Thank you and hope you can help me.
S. 19, WI
Dear S.
Ask yourself why he "did it" with your best friend. Then ask yourself why your best friend "did it" with him. I doubt that this is about sex. Wash your hands of both of them and get on with your life...you're better than both of them.
Your E-Love Advisor,
Courtney
Dear Courtney,
My boyfriend and i have been seeing eachother for about 4 years now and he doesnt let me go out with my friends alone! He threatens to break up with me if i do! he just turned 21 and he goes out to the bars (which is fine) but i hate staying at home when he goes. It sucks! when we do spend time together all we do is sit at his house (with his parents) and watch tv all night! he also doesnt pay for anything. i have to pay for anything that we do or he wont do it! it seems like everytime we are together lately we fight. i dont know what to do anymore and it just seems like i should break up with him, but i dont know if i can! he's one of those type of guys that blame everything on everyone but himself. i cant take it anymore!! help!!!!
M. 19, WI
Dear M.
You've answered your own question. You know exactly what to do. He's a loser. Get out of it SOON! You have the power over your life...don't give it to him or anyone else. Good luck sweetie.
Your E-Love Advisor,
Courtney
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